Dawn Dailey
  • Home
  • Blog on Life, Faith, and Grief
  • Books and Articles by Dawn Dailey
  • Justice Matters
  • About us/Subscribe

Lessons from the Road

7/6/2022

0 Comments

 
Picture
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”  Isaiah 41:10
 
 
I am not an accidental tourist. With my methodical, consistent approach to travel, I could never be accused of being haphazard or unintentional. I prefer to think of myself as a thoughtful and purposeful traveler.
 
After a two-and-a-half-year travel hiatus imposed by the pandemic, my spring trip appears to actually be materializing before my eyes. I feel so out of practice in all my preparations and fearful of traveling again. The day of departure arrives finding me a bit tired and perhaps a little anxious rather than excited to travel again. The ride to the airport feels a bit surreal. Rolling my luggage through the airport’s revolving door, I begin to recover my travel legs. Walking to the airline check-in counter starts to feel a bit normal, like my body remembers this exercise deep in the cellular level even through my brain cells are racing.
 
Evidence of the pandemic is visible from the covered faces with obligatory masks to the addition of hand sanitizer bottles randomly placed throughout the airport. Travel is both the same and yet different from the “Before Times.” The flight is uneventful, thankfully, except for the toddler in the row in front of me who ostensibly is too young to read the “memo” that it’s time for sleep on this overnight flight. I arrive at my destination a little worse for the wear.
 
My plan to have at least the first half of my trip to be in places where I’ve been before is solid. Yet even the familiar is unfamiliar. The driver for the hotel has retired. The front desk staff I used to see are no longer there. I feel untethered as my expectations based on what used to be unravel. Times have changed. We are definitely not in Kansas anymore, Toto!
 
In fact, we are in Paris with all its glamour and fashion, the plethora of art and ancient cathedrals, all against the backdrop of the Seine with its picturesque bridges. I will never tire of its beauty in the hustle and bustle of a big city, yet with the calmness and serenity found in its many parks. The familiar is transformed as I view this City of Light with different eyes.
 
To get to know this city is to look beyond the tourist attractions and focus on the everyday life of the Parisians here, to learn their unique history, sample their delectable cuisine, and walk the concrete sidewalks in their neighborhoods. Buying a Métro card and feeling very Parisian with my purchase, I ride the train to my various destinations – a perfume workshop, a classical concert in a simple but old church, a food tour of Les Halles where for centuries farmers sold their wares.
 
Along the way, I meet people who share a smile or a kind word, who are helpful in sorting out the differences that can trip up even the most intrepid traveler. All too quickly, my time in France comes to an end.
 
I navigate all the logistics that enable me to be transported to another country, one I’ve never visited. Stepping even further out of my comfort zone is both taxing and exhilarating. On to Croatia I go! Not knowing what to expect and being constantly surprised with Croatia’s beautiful coast, I lean into the unknown and sample it, savoring its newness, its uniqueness, and the living-in-the-moment that travel so creates.
 
Serendipitous moments happen, particularly if I am open to it. At breakfast in Zagreb, I sit at a table draped in linen and study the menu. The young waiter arrives to take my order. I ask about some menu items. And then, as I am fascinated with languages, I ask him how to say “please” in Croatian. I’ve been practicing this and other words like “hello” and “thank you,” but I want to ensure I’ve got this one right. He tells me and then apologizes because his native language isn’t Croatian. Curiously I ask him where he is from. When he says “Ukraine,” my reaction is truly visceral at the mention of this war-torn country.
 
This young man and his family left Ukraine at the time of the Crimean annexation. He shares that he wants to write a memoir about his experiences, but he thinks he is too young. I encourage him to start writing now as his experiences so far would be interesting to read. It’s a poignant moment, of sadness over his family’s loss at leaving their country but a salient moment when we connect on the writing and publishing of such a book. Curiosity opened a door that morning to an encounter that could have far-reaching consequences. In that moment, I feel part of something larger than myself and I gain a glimpse into another person’s world, one that is very different from my own.
 
Traveling is more than playing tourist. While we often hear we are to leave no carbon footprints, I would argue that a traveler, not a tourist, leaves an indelible footprint, a carbonless one that has the power to change the people and places encountered just as travel has the potential to transform the traveler themselves.
 
May we journey through life as a traveler, not a tourist. May kindness and encouragement be the footprint we leave behind.
 
 
Lord, thank You for always going with me wherever I go. I do not need to fear. While close encounters often seem random or serendipitous, You are not surprised. Help me to be open to what You’ve planned for me. May my words and actions be kind and encouraging to whomever You place in my path. Amen.
 
 
Text and photograph copyright © 2022 by Dawn Dailey. All rights reserved. Photo of Dubrovnik’s West Harbor, Croatia.
 
 
Not a subscriber to the monthly blog posts? Click here to subscribe.
 
 
A NOTE ON RACIAL JUSTICE:  Becoming antiracist is a journey. Together, we can make a difference. Will you join me? Check out my web page on “Justice Matters” to find resources and to connect with organizations engaging in the cause of racial justice.  Click here to learn more.
 
 
All scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com The “NIV” and “New International Version” are trademarks registered in the United States Patent and Trademark Office by Biblica, Inc.™
0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Looking for posts on Grief? Check out Archives from July 2014 to September 2015.

    Archives

    April 2025
    March 2025
    February 2025
    January 2025
    December 2024
    October 2024
    September 2024
    August 2024
    July 2024
    June 2024
    May 2024
    April 2024
    March 2024
    February 2024
    January 2024
    December 2023
    November 2023
    October 2023
    September 2023
    August 2023
    July 2023
    June 2023
    May 2023
    April 2023
    March 2023
    February 2023
    January 2023
    December 2022
    November 2022
    October 2022
    September 2022
    August 2022
    July 2022
    June 2022
    May 2022
    April 2022
    March 2022
    February 2022
    January 2022
    December 2021
    November 2021
    October 2021
    September 2021
    August 2021
    July 2021
    June 2021
    May 2021
    April 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014

    RSS Feed

Copyright © 2014-2025 Dawn Dailey.  All rights reserved. 
All text and photographs are the exclusive property and copyrighted works of Dawn Dailey and may not be copied or reproduced, transmitted, manipulated or used in any way without written permission.  Photographs on this website have been digitally watermarked with ownership information.

Web Hosting by FatCow